Many of my clients spend their time avoiding disasters in their life. Nothing slows you down more then that. Disasters, chaos, destruction and failure are critical parts of your life’s progression.
You don’t learn from doing it right. You don’t evolve from winning. You don’t grow from success.
Doing it right, winning and success are the result of the lessons you learn from failing.
You need the contrast of not getting what you want. Don’t resist. Engage it. Every time a client goes into breakdown I always say, “Something good is going to happen out of this. I wonder what it will be?”