As a life coach I have seen first hand that you get what you put out. If things aren’t working… if you are stuck… if you experience negativity in your life, then you are putting it out there via your thoughts and behavior.
Many of my clients believe that their negativity is justified and therefore necessary. For example, one of my clients was fired from her real estate company for doing too many deals. It made the other agents feel insecure and the management decided to let her go to create harmony in their office again.
This agent started her own company and has been in a dry spell for 6 months. When she came to me she was desperate to get her deals flowing again. Like most top producers, she tried to double her efforts to jump start her business again, to no avail.
During our life coaching conversations we uncovered that she felt deeply rejected by her last company and was determined to get revenge by doing better then ever. From this negatively-focused place she brought back upon her the very thing she wished for her former colleagues.
I helped her through the forgiveness process, she let it go and the deal flow started to gush!