You Won’t Survive, So Stop Trying

Originally posted July 11, 2011

Listen to your mind, The Drunk Monkey and you will hear thoughts about

  • Getting ahead
  • Looking good
  • Being right
  • Figuring things out
  • Opinions, options & speculations

If you are really honest about each of these thoughts, then you see that they are about getting a mate and staying alive longer.

Major Problem:  You aren’t going to survive!  Everyone and I mean everyone is going to die!  Right?  Are you going to escape death?  No.  Then why spend time avoiding the unavoidable.  While you are studying my material, it is becoming more and more apparent that survival is an illegitimate pursuit.  There is no need to survive.

The very fact that you are reading these words tells me that you are someone who is living an amazing life. You are someone who already has a powerful influence over your world.  There is no way you could be considering living a life of happiness and success if you were in an actual survival situation.  The bottom line is you are in an opulent situation.

Let’s face it; you probably already have a car, house, clothes, electronics and many other luxury items. You are a consumer, which means that your life is not about survival.

Today Consider:  My life is about pleasure.

Your life is about getting what you want and having it all.  You are in pursuit of joy, freedom, peace, happiness and all kinds of other pleasurable feelings.  Why do you want to be in action on your most cherished dreams?  What will that powerful state give you?  More accomplishment, more achievement, more objectives completed, more creativity expression, more acquired, more expansion, more money, more, more more more more…What is the purpose of more?

To feel good.  In the end, you want to feel good.  I hate to break the news to you but, that is not a survival situation.

Consider the lengths you go to survive in non-survival situations.

Peace in Crisis Creates Magic

Over The Top!One of my very powerful clients has been fighting for her financial life.  To make things worse, she started having marriage trouble as well.  Funny how those so often go together.

She has been resisting everything.  “I will not allow myself to be a loser!  I’ve never been broke and I’m not about to start at age 58!!” she would spit with venom through her teeth at me.  I kept encouraging her to surrender.  Often people misunderstand that word.  In my world, surrender doesn’t mean to lie down and give up.  Surrender means to quit fighting with the wave that you are caught up in, relax, regroup and get ready for the inspiration that follows.

When you are out in the ocean and a big wave hits you, you can fight it but you won’t win.  The key is to relax completely and output zero energy.  When you do, the opportunity to surface will present itself and when it does you will have the energy to take it.

Same with life.  When you go into a calm peaceful state, opportunities present themselves and suddenly magic occurs.

My client finally surrendered.  She faced her fears of becoming financially drowned and her marriage dying.  She realized that she would be okay either way.   As soon as she let go and let God, magic started happening everywhere.  Money started trickling in again, which gave her hope.  Her new peaceful state started creating more communication between her and her husband and things started to mend.  Magic!

What are you resisting?  Who are you resisting?

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