So, are you a habitual robotic psycho? Are you stuck in your belief that the way that you’ve been conditioned to behave is the right way? And the way that other people have been conditioned to behave is the wrong way? Are you holding people accountable to agreements they never made? Are you mad when people don’t do the things that you want them to do? Let that stuff go.
You are not the ruler of the universe. You’re not in charge of how people are supposed to be. So, chill out, man. Relax. Go with the flow and just notice how much easier your life is.
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If you don’t feel good, it’s just a state of mind. It’s the perspective that you are adopting in the moment. All there is to do is to change your perspective. Look at it and expand out. Often times what happens when you don’t feel good is you get super focused on this one, little tiny thing that isn’t working. But if you expand your view a little bit and look around, you start to see there’s a lot in your life that is actually working right now.
The moment I see that there is a lot in my life that is working right now, I start to feel good again. The moment I feel good, I am more attractive. When I feel good, I am more charismatic. When I feel good, I’m smarter about stuff. When I feel good, I can take more effective action. When I feel good, I can say the right thing, do the right thing, you know, it’s just like you get in that flow. It’s all about your perception.
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Changing your lover, your spouse, your partner will never work. They don’t want to change. They got into this relationship with you because they thought that you accepted them the way they are. What makes relationships not work, what kills the bliss in relationships is that we love who we think the person could be some day when we finally fix them enough so that they’re perfect. That will kill your bliss. That will make sure that your relationship suck.
Stop trying to convert your lover, your spouse, your partner over to your tribe. They don’t want to convert. Instead appreciate, honor, accept. Why don’t you make a list today of ten things that you appreciate about your lover, your husband, wife, spouse. Make a list of ten things and just review it tonight before you go to bed. Review it tomorrow night, too. In fact, review it for the next week. See what happens when you focus on the things that you appreciate about the person that you’re in a relationship with. You will see the bliss, the joy, the happiness increase exponentially and you’ll discover they didn’t need to change. You needed to change.
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Relationship bliss. How do you achieve this? It’s really simple. You have to give up being right. You need to give up that the other person is wrong. You’ve got to give up that your way is the only way. You need to recognize, very simply, that your partner, your spouse, your lover was raised by other people who have a totally different way of operating in the world. Ultimately, you need to stop converting the person that you are in relationship with to your style. They don’t want to be your style. They want to be their style. So just let them be the style that they are and instead devote yourself to their joy. Spend your time focused on creating their joy, and your joy will explode. All you have to do is focus on how you can help them be happy, and your happiness will be unbelievable.
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The drunk monkey is definitely running your relationship if you are saying, “I love him, but – ” “I love her, but I wish she would – ”
You see, what the drunk monkey says is “If my partner was more like me – if my partner did life the way that I thought they should do life, well, then they’d be much better.” You were conditioned like a dog to believe that your way of being in a relationship is the right way. You were conditioned, like a dog – pee over here. Poop over there. Do this. Say that. Walk like this. Talk like that. You didn’t make your own choices about who you were going to be. And yet you demand that your partner make the same choices as you.
Consider that if you don’t accept someone exactly as they are, you don’t actually love them. Consider you’re trying to change them. Changing someone is not loving them. Loving them is letting them be exactly who they are, as well as all the things that they’re not. Stop holding people accountable to agreements that they never made, and your life coaching is going to get so much easier.
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What you resist in other people, you actually amplify in them. “I don’t like when she does this!” “I don’t like this about him.” Whatever that is, you should know that you’re focusing on it. You’re concentrating on it. And when you focus on things, you actually amplify them and bring more to them.
You know, there’s really something to this idea of dog training, where you focus on the results you want rather than punishing the results that you don’t want. Consider that all the things that you don’t like about your spouse, about your kids, about your parents, about the other people in your life, all of that stuff is occurring because you won’t let it go, because you won’t spend time appreciating, honoring, understanding, accepting, life coaching, acknowledging.
Spend your time this week just appreciating people, and watch what happens. Your life is gonna become amazing, and your relationships are gonna become extraordinary. Try it out.
