Dated:
August 25, 2010 – 2:59 pm
If you didn’t have pain and suffering, you wouldn’t grow. If you didn’t have pain and suffering, you wouldn’t know what isn’t working. You wouldn’t know what beliefs you have, or what you don’t support. The pain and the suffering that you experience in your life is really just you resisting the situation.
How you interpret a situation is your opinion. Did you even invent your opinion? No. You were conditioned like a dog to believe the way you believe. This is how you poop. Here’s where you pee. And this is how you get dressed. You walk like this and move like this and talk like this. You are just a puppet of the conditioning that you have received.
Consider you’ve never made any choices about what you really want your life to be. That all of your choices that you supposedly made have been influenced by what you were conditioned to believe early on is the right way to operate. Let go of some of that today. Know that your growth is where the pain and the suffering is.
So start to get excited about it. Start to get thrilled when you experience, when you come up against the wall, when you come up to something in your world that isn’t working. I just want you to say, “Yeah! This is it. I’m about to grow. Somethin’ good’s gonna to happen.” Try that and see what happens.
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Dated:
July 6, 2010 – 11:39 am
When you are mad, manifesting is not possible.
Now, I don’t mean it exactly like that, because when you’re mad, you will manifest, but you’re just going to manifest things that don’t work. So, you’ll manifest more resistance, you’ll manifest more things that frustrate you. You’ll manifest more things that annoy you, that agitate you.
In order to get into a flow where you manifest what you want, you’ve got to get into a state of no resistance. This means you’ve gotta let go of anger, frustration, annoyance, doubt, uncertainty, etc. All of those things will stop you from manifesting what you want.
Dated:
June 29, 2010 – 1:04 pm
“Why bother?”
“I don’t even know why I try.”
“It’s not gonna work out anyways.”
“I mean, I’ve done it in the past and it just doesn’t work.”
“I mean, it’s just not my style.”
“I just can’t do it.”
Those are thoughts of resignation. Resignation will destroy your dreams. It will destroy your life. Resignation is not the truth. When you are resigned and cynical about things, you cannot move forward with your life. You are basically taking the past and you’re inserting it into the future and you’re saying that the future will be like the past. And that, my friend, is a hallucination.
The future will not be like the past. The future will be whatever you choose, whatever you decide. You make new decisions and new choices. You take a stab at new dreams, and that is what will come true.
