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Jan is upset! She is an executive for a big time home builder and she’s about to walk out! Her boss, a long time client of mine, is not playing by her rules! In her mind, “He’s undermining me and ruining my reputation.”

Listen to this life coaching call as I walk her through taking responsibility and getting her power back.  Then read her email below.

After this call, not only has she transformed her own childish behavior and turned the entire situation around but is now even more empowered. Bottom line:  This job provides Jan with hundreds of thousands of dollars and she was about to blow it by being the victim and letting her Drunk Monkey run the show.

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*** Here is Jan’s follow up Email ***
Matthew,  my call with Greg started out with him saying ” What the hell is wrong with you? He then said he was going to give me 4 options…”  I stopped him and told him he had to listen to me. I told him that I had had the great sense to talk to you before the call and he listened. I went through the 5 step process.

To say it went well is a huge understatement. I believe we both had breakthroughs and moving forward my communication with him will be that of a partner, not a servant.

I cannot thank you enough for helping me in a time of crisis.  Greg and I are both very strong-headed and I have no doubt that this could have ended badly. My old self would have walked out yesterday and not looked back. My new self stepped back, evaluated, assessed and reached out for help. I have both you and Greg to thank for that transformation.

Fondest regards,
Jan

** By the way, both Jan and Greg agreed to let me publish this because they are aligned with my commitment to supporting people like you, with enlightened tools for profound happiness.