I love getting these messages so keep um coming. Here’s a new one I just recieved.
“Matthew, I was sooooooo friggin inspired by your talk at the SS retreat, and I was thinking about what MF said about his good fortune of being exposed to some of his mentors while he was in his 20′s. It hit me like a ton of bricks MY GOOD FORTUNE to having been exposed to you and having you as my mentor. Ive been thinking about the tremendous return on investment that Ive received recently from our association, I mean look at these facts:
- 2011 is the happiest year of my life
- bliss full primary relationship
- lost 35 lbs and still dropping
- effortlessly made 400K ytd
- totally upgraded everything in my life A-Z”
From Ron R.
Three Umpires were ask how they call a strike in the game of baseball…
Rookie umpire said, ” I look inside the strike zone and I call ‘em the way they are”
The experienced umpire said, “After a while I realized the best I could do is call them the way I see them”
The Master umpire said, “They ain’t nothin’ till I call ‘em!!”
Your life isn’t anything until you call it.
Life isn’t hard.
People aren’t jerks.
You aren’t stupid.
Life isn’t anything until you call it.
When you apply spiritual perspectives to your life, everything accelerates. Your life gets way better, very fast. Here are 3 words to focus on this week.
Willingness: Can you find the joy in what you do? Let go of anything you are resisting. Be willing to do what you are doing 100%. All in. No holding back. It feels amazing when you do. When you feel like that, you are magnetic and attractive to what you want. What you want will come to you very fast. But you have to let go of the resistance. Which leads me to the second word.
Acceptance: Acceptance means you admit that you are not the ruler of the universe. Acceptance means that you allow people and situations to be the way that they are. Practicing acceptance gives you incredible freedom and flexibility. When you are not accepting, you are in resistance. What you resist will persist. This will increase your frustration which is a repelling state. What you want will not come to you when you are resisting. Acceptance transforms and allows you to move something from its current state to something better. The third word is…
Non-attachment: This means that you don’t get involved with other peoples drama. Non-attachment is not being passive, its actually fully participating without being reactive. You don’t allow yourself to get emotionally entangled in other peoples bull shit. It’s not being aloof. It’s not apathy. With willingness and acceptance you are fully engaged but unaffected by the drama.
Very powerful way to operate in the world. Try it today.
Have you been trying to change, only to be pulled back to your old ways? Consider this idea: The world won’t let you change. Not because the world is evil and you are a victim. Because you have set the world up to fit with your current set of behaviors and beliefs. Everything you have said to others about how your life is, why your life is this way and who is to blame keeps you trapped. The systems in your life are designed to keep your current life intact.
Every promise you make is a part of the system of living you have designed. Every commitment you make holds the old you in place. Every declaration about what you like and don’t like keeps the old you stuck.
In order to create profound change in your life, you must convince the world that the new you is here. Which means you have to take radical responsibility for all the choices, decisions, and actions you have taken in the past that are keeping you stuck. You did this to yourself. You can undo it.
Some people turn a life challenge into success. What differentiates those who become successful? The answer really is one of commitment versus attachment, and future versus past. When a person looks at a challenge and turns it into a success, it’s because they are committed to something and not getting wrapped up in what this challenge means based on the past.
Often a past experience of failure or setback will influence our current way of dealing with the challenges and setbacks that we face. The successful person will come up to a new challenge, look at it in relationship to the future that they’re committed to creating, and then move past it. Break-downs are the beginning of break-through.
Success is a series of well-managed break-downs. Successful people know this, and therefore, they utilize the challenge as an opportunity to grow, to learn, and evolve and move to the next level. So, the next time you come up against a challenge, know that it is the beginning of your next phase, your next level. This is the secret that successful people use to turn challenges into successes.
Life Coach Matthew Ferry Life Coaching website http://www.matthewferry.com.
I’m happy to be helping so many people find ridiculous bliss in this crazy world. Here’s Rayna’s testimony and a link to my free 15-day eCourse to get you on the path as well.
“I just wanted to send you a quick note about how your work changed me/my life. I was feeling a little lost when i found your work, and the one thing that I took most to heart was your advice to have “total and complete acceptance of all people, at all times, in all situations, including myself”. I felt there was something to this, so I started putting it into practice. When I noticed judgments coming up, I just noticed them for what they are (monkey mind), and gently let them float away. After doing this for several weeks, I noticed that something miraculous happened. It was not a choice any longer that I had to make each time a situation came up. It was my natural state. I see everyone for who they are on a soul level, and more than just accepting everyone, I love them! I have this intense feeling of love for everyone I meet, and even people in my life that I previously would judge and hold resentments towards. So, thank you for that powerful bit of advice, it’s really made a difference in my life.”
Rayna
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