Once you have achieved material success or massive recognition, the next domain of success is non-material. For example: Many of my clients have everything (material) and still feel incomplete as a person or “not there yet” (non-material). They are flying in their jet thinking, “Someday in the future, when X, Y & Z occur, then I will be happy”. Sorry, never happens. That’s where I come in.
My systems, techniques and procedures help the big player move into the realm of ridiculous bliss so that he/she can have it all… profound happiness and material success. All of my work is based on the following philosophy.
Number One
Living a successful life begins with becoming conscious of who you are, why you were born and what has been running your life behind the scenes. You are not hard wired for happiness. Therefore you must learn a procedure for being happy.
Early on in your life, you adopted a set of rules that do not allow you to experience maximum happiness, which I call ridiculous bliss. Without even knowing it, you have been stuck with partial happiness.
My job is to help you break the rules and invent an entirely new game that brings you profound happiness along with your massive success. To make this happen I teach a process called The Game Changer. The Game Changer has four steps that are applied to every aspect of your life to open up your power and let you live full throttle in every category of life.
a. Awareness: Once you become aware of the rules that you have bought into, real change is possible. Until then you are simply a puppet and your conditioning is the set of strings that guides your life. Without awareness, only reaction is possible. Without awareness, you do not live in a state of choice.
b. Flexibility: Once you are aware of the mechanism that is consistently screwing you over in your life, you naturally become flexible. All those places that hooked your emotions and made you reactive suddenly have less power over you.
c. Options: Flexibility reveals an entirely new set of options. Where you once reacted with anger or powerlessness, now you see choices that empower you and give you the freedom to be happy.
d. Power: Choices give you power… the power to turn negative relationships into loving relationships. The power to transform situations where you feel victimized into situations where you are in control and creating the results you want.
Number Two
Your mind, which I call The Drunk Monkey, is not your friend. The Drunk Monkey, all that talking in your head, is not on your side. The Drunk Monkey does not care about your happiness. If you make the mistake of listening to your thoughts, then your life will be more difficult then it needs to be.
For example: have you ever noticed that The Drunk Monkey in your head feels threatened by some of the people in your life? Maybe even people who you know love you? The Drunk Monkey is just part of the biological mechanism that makes up your body. It is not who you are.
When you use the Game Changer process, it becomes clear that your thoughts are all about surviving. If you are reading this blog, then your life is not dangerous. To make things worse, you are going to die no matter how much thinking you do.
Anger, frustration, spite, depression, hopelessness and all other negative emotions are just an indication that your biology perceives danger. Using my process you begin to realize that you are The Drunk Monkey’s puppet. That, in fact, you are not living a life of choice.
The Drunk Monkey reacts, it manipulates, it speculates, it judges and assesses everyone and everything. Its job is to move you toward pleasure and away from pain. Any time you are experiencing anything other then happiness and peace, it is just a state of mind.
Number Three
Inspiration is far more powerful and productive then force and manipulation. When you are inspired, you are naturally in action, which produces exponential results. When you are afraid that what you want is not coming, you become forceful and that makes everything you try more difficult. All fear is an illusion. There is very little in your life that is actually dangerous.
Using The Game Changer, you will get into a clear-minded place. You will realize that all is well, everything you want is coming and there is no need to push or force. One of the master skills in life is to relax and let it flow. From this naturally blissful place, inspiration arises and you find yourself in massive action towards your most cherished dreams. Goals that you had put off in the “someday” category suddenly become today’s priorities.
Number Four
Your life is not designed for happiness and success. Your life is likely only designed for success with some happiness in between. Balance, peace, happiness and fulfillment need structure the same way your successful ventures and projects need structure. Accidental happiness is very rare. A balanced life that you are madly in love with is not something that just happens. Just like creating success in business, you must make a commitment to happiness and then design a system for living that has it occur naturally. What if your life was a straight jacket that forced you to be happy, balanced and peaceful?
Number Five
Acceptance is the most powerful state of mind on planet Earth. I teach my clients to practice total and complete acceptance of all people, in all situations, at all times including yourself. Nothing will make your life better, more fulfilling and satisfying then learning to practice acceptance.
To achieve a state of total acceptance is one of the most difficult attitudes you will ever challenge yourself to adopt. The rewards are equal to the challenge. Practicing acceptance guarantees you a place among the happiest people on earth.
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