She has been resisting everything. “I will not allow myself to be a loser! I’ve never been broke and I’m not about to start at age 58!!” she would spit with venom through her teeth at me. I kept encouraging her to surrender. Often people misunderstand that word. In my world, surrender doesn’t mean to lie down and give up. Surrender means to quit fighting with the wave that you are caught up in, relax, regroup and get ready for the inspiration that follows.
When you are out in the ocean and a big wave hits you, you can fight it but you won’t win. The key is to relax completely and output zero energy. When you do, the opportunity to surface will present itself and when it does you will have the energy to take it.
Same with life. When you go into a calm peaceful state, opportunities present themselves and suddenly magic occurs.
My client finally surrendered. She faced her fears of becoming financially drowned and her marriage dying. She realized that she would be okay either way. As soon as she let go and let God, magic started happening everywhere. Money started trickling in again, which gave her hope. Her new peaceful state started creating more communication between her and her husband and things started to mend. Magic!
What are you resisting? Who are you resisting?