Comments on: Life Coaching Thoughts on Revenge

By: Susan Liddy

Susan Liddy — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 22:59:24 +0000

Anger is so toxic!
Yet, it is an important message system.
It tells us what is uber important to us… sometimes it reveals our passion.
So, recognizing the anger, processing the anger is good… and must be done to release and understand.

Revenge… boy, I’ve certainly had my moments.
I used to be very good at devising all sorts of ways to “get even” with my wrong doers.
But, being in that space… creating that space, only keeps my anger and negativity alive and within me. It disables my ability to *learn* from the experience and ultimately to get to that message my anger was wanting me to hear.

I like your suggestion for your client to feel this out and then communicate what we wants/needs. Sounds like a wonderful learning experience for your client. And, sounds like you’re a wonderful coach.

Thank you for your inspiration,
Susan

By: susan

susan — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 18:39:05 +0000

or…

This letter is brief, friendly,

and, its success depends on you !!!

Just slide/or slip $200.00 across the scales of justice NOW !!! lol

We thank you in advance,
getting into ‘your integrity’
and, ‘dealing’ with this, NOW !!!

love/susan

By: susan

susan — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 18:34:43 +0000

Our idea of a collection letter
is, that it is, brief, friendly, and, most of all successful

Our records indicate, the sum of $200.00 is due to us
in cash, as per, your ‘good promise’ to repay
which was definitely present, at ‘the time’ of ‘your borrowing’

We anticpate your co-operation in handling,
the transference of $200.00 to us, in cash,
since, your integrity is The highest eXpression of your truth
and, we know, in your ‘original promise’
that was present

This letter is brief, friendly,
and, its success depends on you !!!

love/susan

By: Kevin Jones

Kevin Jones — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 21:08:07 +0000

Matt,

I agree whole heartedly that anger only gets in the way of thinking clearly. Clarity is everything in this type of situation! I love your response pattern, allows you to let go.

On the revenge side … I see no need for revenge here, but there is a time and place for everything!

Have a POWERFUL day!

Kevin