To be unhappy, it’s just ignorant. Happiness is a skill. You can learn how to do it. All you need to do is focus on accepting people exactly the way that they are. You also need to accept yourself exactly the way that you are, and accept your situation exactly the way that it is. That’s just a skill.
You’ve got to notice that your mind, the drunk monkey in your head, does not like life being the way that it is. It wants life to be different than it is. And so, you need to learn exactly how to get your mind under control. One great way to do this is to work on appreciation.
So this week, what if you focused on appreciation the whole week? What if next week you focused on acceptance, accepting people, accepting yourself, accepting life, accepting the situation? What if the week after that you focused on gratitude? If you would focus on appreciation and gratitude you will go into an incredible state of happiness. To be unhappy is just ignorant.