You know what to do, but how often do you do it? Consider you do, in your life, what you have structure for. If you want to have an amazing relationship, then you must create the structure to have it. What is structure? It is the promises you have made, either purposely or not on purpose. It is the disciplines you have in place. Structure is an agreement. Structure is the set of expectations that people have of you.
What structures do you have for your relationship? What expectations have you created? What conversations are you forwarding by consistently bringing up? What promises have you made and kept or broken? What disciplines have you put into place to keep the peace in your relationship? How often are you communicating about what is important? Do you have rules about communicating? Do you know your partner’s expectations about communicating?
My intention with today’s post was to get you thinking. If you would like more, sign up for an Inspired Action Coaching call. It might bring you some light.