istock_000000212759smallWithout negativity you would not know what you truly want. Negativity is a teacher.

Even more exciting is the fact that negative experiences are leading to positive ones. When you are creating something new, you must mess up what you have and reorganize it.

The Drunk Monkey (your mind) resists change and new projects. Going to the next level creates massive change. The change is not familiar. Unfamiliar is uncomfortable. Uncomfortable is often regarded as negative. Go Negativity! Negativity means something good is happening. Roll with it.

In January 2007 I put on an event in Sedona AZ.  It was called Prosperity Through Meditation.  Steven Sadleir led the meditations, Dr. David Hawkins inspired us to live a more spiritual life and I supported the group with practical techniques to get into a flow state with life.  These videos are the 8 steps I presented to get into the flow and stay there.

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istock_000005824203mediumWhen you find yourself in action, you are operating from an internal knowing that what you want is coming.  Most new age peeps believe that when you set a new goal, that the Law of Attraction will just bring it.  And often that happens.  But usually this occurs when what you want is something of little substance or importance.  The big stuff requires your full participation.  When you trust the universe, you act.  When you don’t trust the universe, you chant more affirmations, visualize, and read more books about manifesting.

Action is the faith that what you want will occur.

Non-action is the fear that what you want will not occur.

I received this question from a client…

“I was in bed thinking about my 5-year-old and the problems he is having with interpersonal relationships at school and a little bit with his nanny. He seems to talk back and he can be a tyrant. Also he is  not quite a big follower of authority. I know sometimes he says to me you don’t think I am smart, so obviously this is in his mind. I thought to myself about a CD where you spoke of playing positive affirmations, I think to baroque music for your son Trevor.”

This was my response…

I thought I was being a really savvy parent using affirmations with Trevor.  Yet, the affirmation thing ultimately backfired on me. One example: We trained him to say, “I am smart!” and later noticed he would not try anything new for fear that he wouldn’t know how to do it and look dumb. Ouch.  His Drunk Monkey took my positive intentions and turned it into something driven by fear.

No matter how great we think we are as parents, our children will misinterpret our actions, our words and our intentions.  The Drunk Monkey’s job is to protect us from the scary world out there.  Unfortunately, every single client we coach (no exaggeration) whether they had wonderful, kind parents or tyrannical, mean parents, they all end up misinterpreting something early on.  No matter how well-meaning the parents were.  This misinterpretation in the broadest terms is, “I’m not safe”.  No matter how great your parents were, you accidentally started to protect yourself from them and the world.

Your son is displaying the same behavior you and your husband displayed before we accomplished the Inspired Action Coaching process together. Before we examined all of your beliefs you had about yourself, others and life… and then shifted your perspective, you were protecting yourself against the world that wasn’t attacking.

Consider this, at some point your son felt threatened, created a misperception about himself, others and the world… And now he simply views life like the threat is real. Why else lash out?  Why else be afraid?  Just like you did for 30+ years before your coaching with me, your son is protecting himself from all the people in the world who are not attacking him. He is retaliating against rules that are not meant to constrain him. His Drunk Monkey is convinced that there is a threat.  Even worse, The Drunk Monkey believes that his own intellect is a threat  as is evidenced by the “I”m stupid” comments.

Here’s the bottom line: After decades of trial and error, I believe a shift in context is the one and only change agent.  All others pale in comparison.  I see this in all the people still looking for the answer at the next seminar they attend.  You know what to do!  You’ve taken the coaching program.  Now help your son see The Drunk Monkey for what it really is.  Free him from fear forever.

Your biology is an enormous cluster of cells that have come together because survival is easier in groups.

puppet_man_hg_whtYou are not your Drunk Monkey, just like you are not your body. You are the one observing your body. Your mind, the Drunk Monkey, is just a part of your body.

Are you beating your heart right now? Are you commanding yourself to breathe? Take a moment to close your eyes, take a deep breath, hold it and observe your heart beating. Do it now.

Who is doing that? Not you! Your body operates independently of you. You are just along for the ride. Take another moment with your eyes closed and notice how your body is moving, twitching, repositioning itself and doing its thing totally independent of you. Close your eyes now and notice.

Take action on your intentions today.

Give up being right about you, your limitations, the situation, the timing and people.

Engage the mystery of life. You have no idea what is going to happen next, just take the next action and enjoy the result, positive or negative…both are just opinions.

Trust that you are on the right path, if you are reading this, then by the very nature of your intention, it is true, you are on the right path…whether you are producing results yet or not.

Take action,  in spite of the uncomfortable feelings you might have. Just make it an experiment, not important; just see if you can take the action without feeling anything.  See if you can rearrange the thoughts you have to make the actions actually feel good.  Don’t be The Drunk Monkey’s puppet.

attractionI know a bunch of people were sad that they could not make last night’s  training on “The 17 mistakes everyone makes using the Law of Attraction”.  So I recorded it and I’ve put the recording up on this web site.  Click here to listen and be inspired.  I poured my heart out and called BS on myself.  I don’t just share my mistakes, I also give you a set of action items so that you don’t screw yourself over like I did ;-)  Listen Here.

istock_000000471359xsmallThis Wednesday I am presenting a webinar on the ins and outs of using the Law of Attraction to manifest

- Bigger opportunities

- More money

- New deals

- Perfect people

- Amazing lovers

- Well behaved children(imagine that)

Blah blah blah…

But this is not your typical talk on

The Law of Attraction.  Because the

truth is, the LOA has most people on

a sinking ship in their life.

Yes, I’ve used the Law of Attraction to create windfalls of cash and have extraordinary experiences in life…

But that’s not what this webinar is about.

I’ve used the Law of Attraction to

- Screw myself over financially

- Destroy relationships

- Put myself in debt

- Thwart life-changing opportunities

and truth be told, I would never wish the mistakes I’ve made on anyone.

That’s why I’m going to share the 17 mistakes I’ve made with you.

This webinar is called: 17 Mistakes Everyone Makes Using The Law of Attraction – How to get in the flow and attract what you want.

Listen to the replay, now.

istock_000000371759smallIf I hear another person say “I need to attract more money now!”

I’m going to puke! It’s ridiculous.

Can you attract more money? Yes!

Will YOU attract more money this year?

Probably NOT, here’s why…

If you keep making the same mistakes everyone else makes, you’ll feel like a dog chasing its tail… a hamster on a wheel… or a grandma in a rocking chair… lots of action but you’re not getting anywhere. That is why…

I’m doing a special free 90-min webinar on the 17 Mistakes Everyone Makes Using the Law of Attraction and how to get in the flow and attract what you want.

If there is any chance of you attracting more money,then you must understand these mistakes…period.

You know I’ve taught some of the best to attract more money, deals, opportunities, sales etc.

Using what I teach, a financial planner attracted enough new business to outpace last years 50% losses and actually came out 10% ahead… this year she’s 20% ahead… but…

The trick to attraction is counter-intuitive… It’s the opposite of what you think it is…

You ever try to visualize money? How’d that work?

Hit and miss, right?

Listen to the replay here…