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You are in a perpetual state of now. And I know that a lot of people think “but what does it mean exactly?” Well, it basically means that the drunk monkey in your head is constantly fantasizing about what’s coming up in the future. It’s obsessed with controlling the next minute, the next second, the next hour, the next day, the next year. And I want you to notice that there’s not much the drunk monkey can do about it.
The wisest thing to do is to ignore it and to say, “You know what, monkey, what is going to happen will be perfect. I have things I am committed to. I’m not being irresponsible. I do set goals and have objectives. But obsessing and going over and over and over it in my head right now really is not doing us any good.”
Another thing that the drunk monkey does that keeps you out of the present moment is it’s constantly thinking about the past. It’s regretting. It’s trying to re-write your past to make you look more favorable and it’s saying, “Well, that guy was wrong and he shouldn’t have been like that and that was really stupid and blah blah blah!” Just notice that you have so little control over this babbling and rambling in your head and that lack of control ultimately kills your bliss.
What you want to learn to do is ignore it. Try to constantly catch it and just say, “Shut up, monkey, I’m not interested.” Be right here, right now in the present moment. It’s very, very powerful. Lots of energy. Lots of joy. Lots of ecstasy available and waiting for you. But you have to learn to see or recognize the rambling in your head as completely irrelevant and then stop listening. And in that moment, you’ll be higher than you’ve ever been.
I’ve put together a very exclusive weekend retreat here in Newport Beach for 10 people.
I’m calling it, Breakthrough to Bliss.
Let me give you the back story
The personal coaching sessions that I’m doing with clients these days are mind-blowing… transformational… people are moving from a state of frustration, fear, anger, and doubt… to a place of peace, flow and bliss.
I just kept thinking, I need to share this experience with others. The problem is just one of cost… I charge $18k-$27k a year and that’s just out of most people’s price range.
But then it hit me… my coaching calls are 30 min each… what would happen if I took a small group of people through the process in 3 days! We could do 3 months of coaching in 3 days!
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So that’s the purpose of this retreat… I want to accelerate everything you have going on in your life and ultimately help you breakthrough to bliss.
Let me just warn you… this is not for the spiritually timid… I’m going to take you through some processes that will probably have you question everything you know about life and about what it even means to be a human being.
Let me say it this way… if you are committed to having a profound spiritual breakthrough, then you should come.
Here’s what we are going to do…
1. Define calibrated level of consciousness and identify level.
2. Teach you how to discern between what is good for you and bad..mental…physical and emotional
3. Uncover and begin to remove the biggest block to happiness and success
4. Powerful manifesting meditations.
5. Emotional baggage removal meditation
6. You will resolve life long conflicts
7. Refine goals for 2011
I am going to give you tools you need to be happy for the rest of your life.
This very small, and very exclusive gathering is going to be held November 4th, 5th & 6th here in Newport Beach at the Hilton.
Here’s what the weekend will look like.
You will arrive Friday mid day at Orange County airport and get yourself settled in. We will begin at 7pm Friday night and go for as long as we go… probably till around midnight.
Saturday 9-12, take a lunch break, (probably head over to the beach together) then 1:30-5pm Saturday night I’m taking you to dinner at a fun restaurant in town. After dinner we will work again late into the evening. Sunday we finish the sessions by working from 9-12. That gives you time to get on a plane and get back to where ever you need to go.
Here’s the bottom line: If you want my personal attention. If you want me to make sure you clear out the mental, emotional and spiritual baggage, then you should be here.
There are only 10 spots. I charge people $750 an hour for coaching. Your investment for this weekend is only $997. It happens November 4-6, 2011. You deserve to give this gift to yourself.
Do you have post skin bug poop syndrome? Are you asking “what is post skin bug poop syndrome, Matthew?” Well, here’s the deal. I was watching the Discovery Channel the other day and this scientist was basically showing us how there are bugs that are eating our skin. They are then pooping. That poop is the smell that you are.
And the smell, the pheromones, when they go into your nose, will tell you if a person is compatible with you or not. And if they are, you have that incredible ecstasy moment. You know what I’m talking about? When you first come together with a new lover, it’s so amazing. Like the energy, the rush, the high is just unbelievable. But then after about 18 months, it goes away. And by that time most of us have either gotten into a very committed relationship because we were hoping that this high would stay or, you know, we’d marry the person or whatever.
But here’s the bottom line. It is after the bug poop smell factor wears off that you now actually have to create a relationship. And the issue that you’re going to face is that you were trained to believe that your way of operating in the world is the right way and that your spouse, mate, significant other’s way is the wrong way.
And that creates conflict. Most marriages these days, more than 50 percent now end up in divorce. There are so many people today who are single later in life. People are waiting to get married until their late thirties. Twenty years ago they would have thought the person was a loony, right? All people were married in their twenties, for example.
But today more than ever we have not yet figured out how we can come together and stay together. The key is to understand that the drunk monkey in your head is holding that person accountable to agreements that they never made and to realize that the way that you think that people should behave is not even your belief. You were conditioned like a dog to believe that. The people in your life conditioned you.
So what you want to do is you want to practice accepting your mate exactly the way that he or she is. Accept them exactly the way they are. Every time you get upset, I want you to notice you’re getting upset because they’re not fulfilling on some accountability that they never agreed to and every time you get annoyed if they’re breaking an expectation they didn’t even know existed. They didn’t know you – they don’t have a crystal ball. Let it go and watch what happens. You will see your happiness, your bliss, your joy go through the roof.
To be in a state of ridiculous bliss, do I do a day of silence or can I just be in the world? Clients have said to me “I mean, my life is chaotic, Matthew. How do I get into ridiculous bliss? Do I have to like escape and be a monk and, you know, go mediate in a cave?”
No, no, no, no, no. Now, is it effective for you to take time for yourself to think and to be introspective? Yes, of course. That’s very effective. And I meditate every single day, and I highly recommend that you meditate every single day. But I find it equally valuable to fully engage the world, to just play full out and then use my techniques of aligning, accepting, allowing, and honoring as tools to bring ridiculous bliss into every aspect of my life.
You can do the exact same thing. So do you do a day of silence or do you engage the world full blast? I say you try both.
I often wonder if spiritual people are actually just resigned and they’re using their spirituality as their reason for not creating the life that they dream of. I know that I have many, many times said to myself, “Well, you know, I’m just practicing being spiritual.” But my life sucked. My life was a disaster. And I’ve found that when I take responsibility for my life being amazing and I bring spiritual principles to each and every category of my life, what happens is my ability to be spiritual is just phenomenal and I’m just out of control with happiness and peace.
Are you using your spirituality as a cop out, a way in which you don’t have to be responsible for making your life amazing? I’d be willing to bet that there are places you’re doing that. Cut it out. Start using your spiritual principles to actually make your life extraordinary everywhere. Ultimately, a spiritual person is someone who is extremely responsible. Is that you?
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