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August 31, 2009 – 12:21 pm
Many of my clients spend their time avoiding disasters in their life. Nothing slows you down more then that. Disasters, chaos, destruction and failure are critical parts of your life’s progression.
You don’t learn from doing it right. You don’t evolve from winning. You don’t grow from success.
Doing it right, winning and success are the result of the lessons you learn from failing.
You need the contrast of not getting what you want. Don’t resist. Engage it. Every time a client goes into breakdown I always say, “Something good is going to happen out of this. I wonder what it will be?”
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August 29, 2009 – 9:37 am
The body won’t help you have a great life. The body has urges that don’t support you in living your dreams. So many of my male clients don’t yet distinguish that their body has the urge to have sex with people they are not in relationship with. The body has the urge. Not you. Many of my female clients don’t yet distinguish that their body has the urge to mother people who don’t need your help.
The body is an animal. The body does its own thing. The body doesn’t care if it’s urges contradict your commitments. Today, notice how your body’s urges contradict your commitments. Then choose to do what you want versus what your body wants.
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August 27, 2009 – 11:55 am
The Drunk Monkey is always trying to keep you away from things that might be uncomfortable. Your new goals and dreams ARE going to be uncomfortable. New isn’t easy to experience because it’s different, unusual and weird. Your new goals and dreams are unknown and therefore disconcerting to the mind.
The way forward is the present moment. The future is dark and scary to The Drunk Monkey (your mind), the present moment is a flashlight that you are shining into the future to see what is there.
Today practice gratitude, appreciation, and practice understanding today. Notice the beauty around you. Pay attention to the fact that all is well in this moment. The future isn’t coming the way your mind thinks it is. Quit allowing The Drunk Monkey to fantasize about the future that isn’t coming. You don’t know what’s going to happen next. Stay HERE now instead. From there moving forward is easier to handle.
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August 26, 2009 – 12:43 pm
A blind squirrel can find a nut every once in a while. Can you find happiness without practicing awareness? Yes. Every once in a while. But, if you are willing to examine your thoughts, see The Drunk Monkey for what it is, you can find happiness every single day.
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August 25, 2009 – 4:02 pm
You can’t manifest with crap underneath. If you are not attracting the results you want, then you are manifesting the results that are within your mindset. It’s critical that you take the time to examine your perception. How you see the world is what shows up in YOUR world. I know exactly what you are committed to. I look at what you have in your life. Acceptance is the only way to unleash the power that you are.
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August 24, 2009 – 9:26 am
There is no world out there.
Not at least the world you experience. Yes, there is something out there, but what you are experiencing isn’t it. What you are experiencing is your opinion, your perception and your conditioning. How you relate to the world is what the world is for you. Two people can be in the exact same situation and have completely different experiences.
Are there atoms, electrons and such out there in the world? Apparently science is getting a better grasp on that. But it takes multimillion dollar machines to see what is really going on in the world. So the actual reality is not something humans have day-to-day access to. You and I have access to the information our senses bring in to our consciousness.
Why is this relevant?
Your husband isn’t really a jerk. That’s just your opinion. Not the truth.
The president isn’t actually doing anything you say he is. That’s just your perception of the situation.
The world isn’t all screwed up. That’s just the way you see it.
There is nothing to fear. That’s just a biological reaction to the stimulus in the environment. Other people aren’t afraid of the same things you are. Therefore you fear is not real or the truth.
Today see the world for what it really is, just your opinion. Notice how much more relaxed and enjoyable life is.
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