Comments on: How to Neutralize Negativity http://matthewferry.com/blog/inner-peace/how-to-neutralize-negativity/ Life Coaching Tips that Create Happiness and Success Thu, 29 Jul 2010 22:00:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Angelika http://matthewferry.com/blog/inner-peace/how-to-neutralize-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-4844 Angelika Thu, 06 Aug 2009 01:04:14 +0000 http://matthewferry.com/blog/?p=1487#comment-4844 Sorry I forgot to mention that I usually deal with things based on how I FEEL about them- if it feels good do it In the above circumstances- saying nothing makes me feel uneasy saying something kindly makes me feel good - yet the retaliation makes me uncomfortable reporting them makes me feel terrible Sorry I forgot to mention that I usually deal with things based on how I FEEL about them- if it feels good do it

In the above circumstances-

saying nothing makes me feel uneasy
saying something kindly makes me feel good – yet the retaliation makes me uncomfortable
reporting them makes me feel terrible

]]> By: Angelika http://matthewferry.com/blog/inner-peace/how-to-neutralize-negativity/comment-page-1/#comment-4843 Angelika Thu, 06 Aug 2009 01:01:03 +0000 http://matthewferry.com/blog/?p=1487#comment-4843 I agree that opinions are or can be a source of negativity- perhaps you can help me with this - one of the areas I am working on for myself is that the real is not necessarily the real- however, when one is working for a non for profit organisation - promoting and marketing them - and then a situation occurs whereby the person who is "in control" of the organisation misappropriates large sums of money out of the organisation for themselves and makes you directly aware of their action and that they know what they are doing then do you - mind your own business? Keep your opinion to yourself? Take no action and move on or report the occurrence to the right authority ( is this not revenge)? These are the "reality" situations I grapple with and would really like more help with. I agree that opinions are or can be a source of negativity- perhaps you can help me with this – one of the areas I am working on for myself is that the real is not necessarily the real- however, when one is working for a non for profit organisation – promoting and marketing them – and then a situation occurs whereby the person who is “in control” of the organisation misappropriates large sums of money out of the organisation for themselves and makes you directly aware of their action and that they know what they are doing then do you – mind your own business? Keep your opinion to yourself? Take no action and move on or report the occurrence to the right authority ( is this not revenge)?

These are the “reality” situations I grapple with and would really like more help with.

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