17 Mistakes Everyone Makes Using The Law of Attraction

Dated: date September 23, 2008 – 8:27 am

17 Mistakes Everyone Makes Using The Law of Attraction
How to get in the flow and attract what you want.

If you have ever wondered why the Law of Attraction seems to work for everyone but you, then leave a comment to be invited to my next seminar focused on this topic.

  • Why the Law of Attraction works for a select few and not the vast majority
  • How millionaires use it to attract money, deals and opportunities
  • The three most important factors in attracting life-altering results
  • Why most can attract parking spaces and hardly anyone can attract fame, fortune & mega results
  • Why the Law of Attraction only works when I don’t care if it works and not when it really matters?

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No need to attract results, just get out of the way

Dated: date September 16, 2008 – 5:29 pm

You’ve heard of the law of attraction and you’ve used it.  Now you are going to get on the road to mastery of the Law of Attraction, okay?

The truth is, there is no need to learn the Law of Attraction.  You don’t have to learn how to attract the things that you want.  In fact, you are already attracting, whether you want to or not.

More importantly, you have to learn to be in harmony with what you have now and learn to be eager for what you want.

Attraction is natural, it is happening all the time.

You must learn to allow what you want in.

It’s just that when you are associated with The Drunk Monkey (my nickname for the mind) you focus on survival aspects of life that make you feel fear, doubt, uncertainty, anger, pain, suffering and being the victim.  When you are feeling negative emotions, you attract what you don’t want.

And when you are stoked, lit up, thrilled, enjoying, happy, satisfied, eager and open, you attract what you do want.  Pretty simple.  But not easy.  You are wired to feel bad.

It all begins with knowing what you want.

1.  What do you want?  Have you written it down today?  Even if you write down what you want on a piece of scrap paper right now, it will be infinitely more powerful than if you don’t.

2.  Look at everything in your life with gratitude.  Expand what works in your life by focusing on it.  What you focus on expands.

3.  Create more of what you want in your life by looking at what you don’t want and being grateful that it’s there to teach you what you do want.

4.  Be sure to track your miracles in your journal.  Or you can report them on the miracle hot line here: http://members.AudioGenerator.com/st1.asp?c=769204&P=Report+Your+Miracles

5.  Convince your mind that you are a powerful creator by noticing and reporting unexpected, unexplainable good fortune today.

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The Victim Formula

Dated: date September 2, 2008 – 11:51 pm

The victim formula is at the heart of all failure.  Failure being the moment YOU declare that your dream is impossible and give up.  The victim formula leads to resignation and resignation will stop you dead in your tracks.

So, what is the victim formula?

Some day, when I, then I will…

“Some day, when I have the money, then I will take my family on a vacation and we will all connect and celebrate our life together.”

“Some day, when I get my degree, then I will prove to the world that I’m as good as the next person.”

“Some day, when my kids go off to school, I will finally start my creative project.”

“Some day, when I start my own business, then I will set my own schedule and I’ll make the rules.”

“Some day, when I retire, then I’ll do whatever I want, whenever I want.”

The question I usually ask my client is, “And in the mean time?”

Their answers range from…
“In the mean time, I’ve got to work 12 hours a day to get the money to go on vacation.”
“In the mean time, I’ve got to keep showing the world that I have value.”
“In the mean time, I have to put my needs on the back burner and raise my kids.”

Basically what everyone says is, “In the mean time I will tough it out and suffer!”  Another way of saying that, “In the mean time I will be a victim of my circumstances and not live my dream now.  I have to wait for some day.”

I have coached so many people who were stuck in this paradigm.  “Some day Matthew!  Some day I’m going to be successful and then I’m going to really live!”

But some day never comes.  With each new accomplishment, the bar gets raised.  With each new acquisition, the thirst for more stuff increases.  Have you ever noticed that the moment you get something new, you are quickly on to the next thing?  How long before the excitement about a new car wears off?

Some day never comes.

If you allow yourself to live within this mindset, you will eventually burn out, get resigned and mistakenly believe that dreams never come true.

What is your someday?  Leave your comments below.

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